intentional travel

How to Use Delight to Guide Your Next Travel Adventure

A soaked day at Iguazú Falls reminded me that delight is a real reason to choose a trip. I talk about waterfalls, fried manioc, small wants, and what happens when we stop shrinking what we want into the most sensible version.

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You Can’t Afford a Solo Trip You Haven’t Priced

Most of us say “I can’t afford it” about a trip before we’ve ever worked out what it would actually cost. Jillian Johnsrud, author of Retire Often, has taken more than a dozen mini retirements, and she shows how pricing a trip line by line turns a someday into a real decision, whether you have a month or a week.

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How to Plan a Solo Trip You’ll Actually Enjoy

There isn’t one right trip to find. The best afternoon I ever had in Osaka was a walk I chose and a table by a garden, nothing that would make a list. Planning a solo trip you’ll actually enjoy is less about logistics than design, and the key move is subtraction: take the shoulds off and build the trip around the woman who is actually going.

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What really makes a solo trip “worth it”

I had heard about Kandy, Sri Lanka for over 20 years, so I booked a full-day private tour even though I was tired. When it started to rain and everyone rushed to the next stop, I found a seat and read a chapter of my book. This episode is about what makes a solo trip worth it when nobody else is there to say that’s enough for today.

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Travel After 40: How to stop rushing and actually enjoy going alone

I’m recording this somewhere that still feels unfamiliar, and my instinct is to speed up and fill everything in. Instead, I’m slowing down enough to let my brain and body catch up with each other. This episode is about the gap between arriving physically and arriving emotionally, starting with the immigration queue in Colombo.

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